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It's the little things...

7/8/2018

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My wonderful learner Jarod comes to class twice a month and this week he was so very excited to tell me that his birthday is coming up and he will be 17.

I tell him I have a present for him, and I go to the garage and wrap up a writing notebook add a pack of fresh markers and throw in a focus spray too.
Jarod is delighted with his gift and one of the reasons is because he has become an excellent expressive writer, so new markers and a fresh notebook is the best gift ever!

I’ve been Jarod’s teacher and friend for around 10 years now.
We started working on reading and writing at our very first session.

It took Jarod a long time to click into reading and even longer to become a writer.
Years in fact, and I was beginning to wonder if expressive writing would ever happen.
Still, his mother continued to make the over 2 hour drive to my home each session and I continued to do what I do, teach to my learner's own unique speed and capabilities


Two years ago it, at last, all clicked for Jarod and he started expressive writing!
This was his first creation and it was written to me on the back of a worksheet;

 “Ms bwn yuo fat”
That is what he wrote!
Well lucky for me my feelings did not get hurt, but interestingly enough, I had woken up that day feeling bloated and ‘fat’!
You’ll often hear me say that our learners are highly intuitive and I believe this is an example of that and that in itself is a great topic for future post.


I was thrilled with Jarod’s first display of expressive writing because we had been working on this for years and years.
I never give up and say writing or reading will not be possible for any child I teach.

Jarod now writes a big variety of expressive writings on the back of his sheets. He always writes what is on his mind.
 These days the majority his writings are of the kindest and highest nature and I am so very proud of him.
I certainly don’t discourage his thoughts but remind him to express them gently and now he does!


I was strongly prompted to write this post today despite it being my day off and I was not planning on doing much of anything today.
Have you ever noticed how the Holy Spirit, your Inner Guide, just wont stop gently reminding you of things it wants you to do?  Well. it happens to me all the time and that is why I am here writing!

This week when Jarod was doing his independent work at the table I decided to make him a hand made birthday card after I had given him the impromptu gift of markers and a notebook.
The card went  like this:

Happy Birthday Jarod,
I have known you a long time.
You are a smart and handsome boy.
I am happy to know you.
I love you,
Mrs.Brown


When I gave it to him I sat in awe at how he was reading each word and taking in the meaning of each word.
I sensed this card meant a great deal to him.
Jarod’s face was down as he was reading but I heard sniffles.
I said, “Are you crying?”
Jarod said “maybe”

I was touched to see him be moved to tears.
It was such a precious moment.

He went back to the table to resume his work; on the back of his next sheet he wrote me a thank you note.


I believe I share this because it’s a very sweet story and I share it for inspiration in that we should never give up on teaching our children to read and write even though they have a diagnosis and always remember the road of teaching is one that lasts a lifetime.

I share this because all of the teaching and modeling we do with our learners is really sinking in even if they don’t show you, one day everything you have been teaching just comes full circle and they have mastered something new.

I share this to as a reminder to myself that even the smallest of gestures or kind words I share can touch others in ways
I may or may not ever be aware of.


I wish you all happy learning and happy living,
​
With love and gratitude.
​~Mrs. Brown


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8 Comments
Susan Nichols
7/8/2018 01:10:46 pm

Oh my! I needed to hear this encouraging story SO MUCH today!!! What HOPE! Thanks for sharing from your heart.

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Maribelle Meno
7/8/2018 05:04:50 pm

This is a beautiful story indeed!

When I started to homeschool my son, there were days when I feel I am not doing enough in the communication and reading/writing department. But there are days when things click and he remembers a lesson learned months later, especially when it relates to a combination lesson with a field trip! Experiences stay in his memory longer!




Thank you sooo much for this inspirational story!

The reminder that always modeling and teaching/learning is ongoing!

Much aloha!

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Chachi
7/8/2018 05:32:46 pm

Beautiful, it encourages, I don’t know when it will all come together for Max but I must keep going! Thanks for sharing.

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Shelley
7/8/2018 07:30:52 pm

Ohhh Terry this is so moving!! Thank you for sharing this story. I just today discovered your blog, and I'm so glad I did . 😍

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Katie Hartsfield
7/9/2018 09:14:30 am

Loved getting to know Jarod and learning about how far he’s come. Such a uplifting share!

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Judy
7/10/2018 02:17:05 pm

Terry, This made me cry! This exchange beteeen you and Jarrod gives me so much hope for Cole! Thank you for sharing so much more than you could ever know.
Thank You Terry for this amazing blog! 💗

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Andrea Powers Wooldridge
9/8/2018 01:14:12 pm

Love your stories about tutoring and teaching children with Down syndrome. As a special education teacher myself, I know that as the saying goes, “Everyone does not learn in the same way, or on the same day.” My favorite children’s author did not learn to read until she was 14 years old. Now she writes and illustrates her own books. Before Patricia Polacco left elementary a very dedicated general education teacher suspected her dyslexia, and help remediate and teach her by writing words in white chalk, on a black chalkboard. This led to the discovery of her multiple disabilities, but also unlocked her talents. Her talents led her to becoming an award winning children’s book author and illustrator. I edition she earned a BA, MS, and finally a Doctorate in Fine Arts.

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Daniela & Jarod
8/20/2019 06:06:53 pm

We were just printing some extra happy sheets and Jarod came across this again but was just as excited to see himself as the first time.
Thanks for sharing. Most importantly thank our lucky stars for YOU!

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